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Dawn Sully Pile's avatar

The books and daydreams that save us during loss and times of suffering, yes, and beyond. Daydreaming as a daily practice is, I think, life-giving. I felt the loss of a child, having experienced the same and while not prominent, always part of me.

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Emma Parsons's avatar

Thank you, Dawn . Lovely the way books can continue to comfort and heal us

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Helen Peto's avatar

Lovely, intriguing change of direction and perspective.

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Emma Parsons's avatar

Thank you, Helen. I'm seeing where it takes me ...

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Angélique Day's avatar

Recollection of something sorrowful in tranquillity, this chapter underlines the sad events we often experience and pass through. They help us grow and carry with them significant images. Sometimes bitter sweet.

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Ruby Wright's avatar

Wow Emma, that flip into the first person at the end is so powerful.

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Emma Parsons's avatar

Oh, good! Thank you, Ruby.

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Anna Sayburn Lane's avatar

There's something about reading to comfort oneself, especially when sick or heartbroken or otherwise going through hard times. The escape it offers, stepping through the Wardrobe or the garden gate or the bluebell wood in Rutshire, is much more intense than watching TV or a movie. Reading has, I think, given me more pleasure than anything else in my life, from the moment I began to read. Which of course, eventually, made me a writer.

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Emma Parsons's avatar

Yes, you put it well, Anna. The escape in reading is somehow deeper and more intense than anything. It has its own self contained peaceful sense of fulfilment.

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Melissa Mouchemore's avatar

That Annie Ernaux line .. yes. I relate. And having the parallel life of a writer. I remember reading that the poet UA Fanthorpe taught for many years and finally realised that she wanted to walk out the gates to a future just as year after year she waved off her students.

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Emma Parsons's avatar

Thank you for this lovely, thoughtful comment, Angelique.

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Emma Parsons's avatar

Thank you, Melissa. Love the nugget about UA Fanthorpe.

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